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What if you could virtually assure yourself of finding a great life partner and enjoying a fulfilling marriage that lasts your entire life?


If he or she “had you at hello”. . . it might mean “uh oh”.

Many people have wished they knew back then what they now know, because they ended up in a painful relationship with a jerk or jerkette. When we fall “in love”, it’s easy to lose sight of the important things that would be good to know about your partner in order to make it work for the long haul.

I’m a certified administrator of the excellent PICK a Partner relationship curriculum, which teaches a practical approach to building healthy relationships while getting to know the most important areas of the person you are dating.

If you have ever been in a relationship where you wondered how could something that felt so right go so wrong, you will benefit from this course.

PICK is designed for singles as early as high school, as well as single again folks.

I lead the PICK program in multiple formats, such as retreats, conferences, or a series of weekly classes using this proven relationship educational experience. Contact me for a free consultation to explain some of the basic principles and how it might fit your group.

We teach young people how to make personal safety a high priority, as we should. Unfortunately we don’t usually teach how to pick a great life partner, leaving it to fate or hormones.

For me, the PICK training course is relational self-defense. It just makes sense.

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